...with a purpose

Exclusively for ELITE & SUCCESSFUL singles who refuse to settle when it comes to attracting the love of your life.


Elite Love Coaching 

Whether you are newly single, divorced, dating, or in a relationship, if you are ready to find your soulmate and finally move forward in your journey to love, you've come to the right place.

We strive to raise the GOLD STANDARD in highly-personalized love coaching for successful singles. Our proprietary Feminine Activation System has made this program one of the most highly sought-after love coaching programs for successful single women in America. 

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Apply Today and become an

Elite Member

Trying to find “The One” can be exhausting and time-consuming.  


Our simple 3-step process will bring you closer to attracting the love you deserve.


Start the process by completing the membership application.


After you complete the membership application, you will receive an email to book your discovery call with Shay.


After the call and as soon as you activate your membership, your love coaching begins.

Loving Couple

Jeanna W. , Married June 7, 2020

Shay's Elite Love Coaching taught me how remove love blocks I didn't know I had and scientific, metaphysical ways to attract the love I deserve. There's no one else I would trust with my love journey.

America's #1 Love Coach ®

Shay Your Love Diva

Certified Love Transformer ®

I have helped hundreds of members manifest and attract the life partner of their dreams and I am certain I can do the same for you. 

Helping you attract your true LOVE is at the center of everything I do.

Using my scientifically-proven methods alongside my experience in love coaching and scientific research with some of the nation’s most accomplished and successful women, my intention is to always provide an unparalleled love manifestation and attraction experience that you will not get with any other love coach. 

My method is tailored specifically to you and is scientifically-proven with a 98% success rate.

As an Elite Love Coaching Member, your experience will be unparalleled...and your results will be immediate. That is what sets me apart and has helped rank me as America’s #1 Love Coach ® . 


"I truly believe that when you are properly love-aligned, you will create better relationships and attract your soulmate." 

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Why work with
A Certified Love Coach?

Personalized Service

Yes, everyone deserves to love and be loved. But, let’s be honest, it isn’t always easy to find someone whose lifestyle, goals and personal character are in-line with yours. My highly-personalized approach will guide you through the specific steps to not only prepare for but also attract the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.​

Proprietary Methodology

My scientific-based approach is designed to heal, adapt and evolve into the truest and greatest version of yourself. I’ve compiled all of the wisdom, intuition, training and research data gained from my experience to offer you best-in-class, personalized love strategies. This method will open your mind, body and soul to the opportunity to attract true love, a shared intimacy and a lifetime of happiness. 

Time is everything

Your hard work and dedication has afforded you the life you live. And by this point you have invested the time and energy in trying to find “the one” - time that you may not always have. My process involves getting to know you and learning about your beliefs and experiences and understanding exactly what you’re looking to give and receive from your life partner. 

Discover your love strategy

Whether you realize it or not, you use a strategy in everything from simple everyday tasks to decision-making in the boardroom, the courtroom- no matter what the industry - and the truth is, love is no different. Together, we will define your unique love strategy so you will only attract those who will give you the most fulfilling love. You will gain tools and insights in order to implement those strategies effectively and rapidly. My proprietary formula uses a sequence of scientific methods - designed and tested - to increase your opportunity for success in love.

Love Coaching from the inside, out.

I provide the very definition of upscale love coaching services for successful bachelorettes. As a certified Neuro-Linguistic Programmer (NLP), I will guide you through a series of personalized journeys designed to remove any limiting beliefs, heal and eliminate any conscious and subconscious blocks and/or traumas that may be preventing you from receiving the one true love you desire and deserve.

Feminine Energy Activation

​Balance your feminine energy and career life and make room for love.


Unparalleled, Upscale 

Love Coaching

Our Elite Love Coaching is ideal if you are:

  • Ready for a highly successful approach to creating and manifesting the love life you desire

  • Committed to maximizing your success within your love journey

  • Looking for highly personalized guidance and support in beginning a new chapter in life.

If you’re ready to be in a healthy, long-term relationship you’ve come to the right place.

Frequently asked questions

How much does BDU Elite cost?

We offer multiple membership options available. During your Discovery call, you will receive these membership options via email. Membership fees typically range from $15,500-$100,000. You can learn more about this elite program by scheduling your discovery call today.

What can I expect during my discovery call?

We will get clear on what you want to create in your love life, and I will help you expand into the possibilities.
We will get clear on what’s real in your love life and what challenges you are facing today. We will work together to get clear on your next steps and see if BDU Elite is the best option for you.

Will my personal information remain private?

Yes, Shay values confidentiality so any personal information that you share with us remains private and secure. All our clients and members are kept confidential. You can rest assured that your experiences, data and any other information provided is available only to our professional service provider, Shay.

Can I freeze my Elite Love Coaching Membership?

Members who sign up for our elite and gold memberships are entitled to a thorough 12 week intensive. We offer a one-month hold for any reason that you might have. Contact us as soon as possible if you need to put your membership on hold.

What are Elite Love Coaching members like?

This program is designed and thoughtfully curated specifically for elite single women. Our members include a wide range of busy executives, professionals, and entrepreneurs who are ready to settle down with their ideal match.

What is the success rate?

Our professional services and scientifically-proven methods have a 98% success rate. This is measured by the number of members who enter into a serious relationship during the first 12 months of being enrolled in the program.

What other services are offered?

We are committed to providing the gold standard in all aspects of attracting love. In addition to Elite Love Coaching, all members receive an array of add on services that include: Date Prep Consultation, Private Breakthrough Coaching Session, Home Evaluation Sessions, Private Positive Mind Meditation Sessions and Online Dating Profile Set Up And Management, and skip tracing and background checks of prospects to ensure that you are meeting and dating the highest quality matches.

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